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Considering moving to the Seattle area for a job Seattle, Bellevue, or Kirkland. I love the environment of Seattle - cool, cloudy, rainy. But with the tech giants present and bringing in so many engineer types I'm worried how the balance is I'm also an engineer.
I have several interest areas and my goal would be to do those activities and hopefully date naturally, rather than use dating apps. I see a ton of posts on the topic and ready through many but I am looking for a most recent status Thank you.
Difficult for guys? It's difficult for most people.
What helps is to outdoor recreation groups of some sort: hiking The Mountaineersrowing or kayaking, rock climbing, or attending REI lecture events, ing one of the neighborhood soccer leagues or volleyball through the Parks Dept. The challenging thing in Seattle is breaking the ice with strangers who often are very reserved.
By sharing a group activity with people, it's a natural ice-breaker, and you get to know people by seeing them regularly over time. Easier here than in DC, but probably difficult everywhere. My experience here is that it's easy to break the ice and make friends in Seattle people in DC would get angry if you talked to them but most people flake out on plans guys and girls included. I think that's just a millennial thing, though. Now if you're not Instagram-worthy, might as well stay in and watch Netflix. In addition to this there was rampant alcoholism. I've been in more potential fights in two years living in Boise, then in the last 15 years.
You want to talk about a tough town to meet women, that is the worst of them.
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Yes, there is a lot of men in Seattle and many have a lot of cash which is not a great thing in the dating competition market. But there are some caveats here. A lot of wealthynerdy, hipster beta males who have no real game, personality and tend to spoil and pamper women as the only means to getting a date.
This creates a city that is definitely saturated with Provider Hunter types and you need to be very cautious for those type of women. Many of the more classy women you will see around places like Belltown and definitely the Eastside will expect you to buy them not only drinks, but food and take them out. Most of the time this will not lead to lasting relationships or sexual encounters either. What I find toughest about women in Seattle is how shy and reserved they are. Also, many do have that Scandinavian Innocence persona which makes them always feel shameful and guilty.
Seattle women are very shame-faced and it can be very daunting to a person who comes from a culture with more sexually open, warm, friendly and social women to have to deal with these more reserved, shy and shame-faced type of women. However, with all that being said if you can see through the facade and ovecome the barriers there are a lot of single women here. Some are beautiful and I think do want to meet a genuine man for a relationship or at least a sexual encounter. Unlike Boys-See you will see beautiful women sitting at bars alone looking to meet men.
It is not as common as in other big cities but they are there. The college area has lots of young beautiful women, but they are on the younger side and in the college scene.
A trip to Trader Joes in U-District will give you a nice display of eye candy. Although, I find a lot of women in Seattle dress like slobs, wearing sweat pants and t-shirts. Also, some have beer guts thanks to Seattle's very beer friendly culture. Some people say women in Seattle are not attractive, but I do not agree.
I believe the city has very attractive women but they dress so badly that many mistakenly think they are not attractive. Women in cities like Miami or LA dress up like models and make themselves up heavily and are quite fit. So people will think they are super beautiful. But with the same clothing, fitness-level and makeup I bet the women here would be more attractive.
You will find some ladies who do dress up a bit nice though, but less common than other cities. Last edited by RotseCherut; at PM. Originally Posted by RotseCherut.
Last edited by Ruth4Truth; at PM. Originally Posted by homesinseattle. Originally Posted by Blondebaerde.
Of course. She recommended, quite correctly, "try being sociable in a non-pressure, non-predatory environment, take it slow and build around activities by being friendly and open, you can't help but meet people. I've had zero trouble meeting single women in this area based on common interests, via friends, and online though haven't really tried the latter since late at this point with serious effort, I mean. Half the men here are closet-cases, many women are dying for a normal and well-adjusted man to court them properly.
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